For several years I’ve turned away from a lot of physical measurements like weight and (except in the most general terms feasible) the dimensions for sizing clothing, because I know that the numbers have been bad, and that since I was stalled out thanks to body loathing and health problems from making any progress, it [...]
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We want information! Information!
Posted in La Vie Trans, tagged identity on April 26, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Tiptoeing in
Posted in Family, La Vie Trans, tagged Family, identity on April 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Coming out in stages to Mom.
Aesthetics are real, too
Posted in Appearance, La Vie Trans, tagged femininity, identity, musing on April 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
“In Defense of Eye Candy” is an article about computer interface design, but the more I read it, the more I realized that it applies to gender identity and presentation just as strongly. One of the features of kyriarchy (and I love that word, and am so glad to know it) is the idea that [...]